Let’s be clear; if such a thing as a race to an AI assistant exists, Apple is losing badly. Gemini is already doing things like ordering Ubers and DoorDashing teriyaki. It can look at your calendar and figure out when you should leave for the airport. Gemini won the race, fair and square.

But there’s also a growing distrust of AI, particularly from young people, and the better Gemini gets, the creepier it is. It has to be if it’s going to deliver on the promise of a truly helpful assistant. But wanting your AI assistant to anticipate your next move and actually watching it happen? Those are very different things. I willingly gave Gemini permission to access my Google Photos and Gmail, but it always makes my skin crawl hearing Gemini say my son’s name out loud. I test out a lot of this stuff as it becomes available — hazard of the job — but the public reaction when these kinds of features start trickling down to the mainstream will be very telling.

New New Siri will be built on top of Gemini in some fashion. Apple is no doubt paying handsomely for the privilege, but there’s a potential upside to being one step removed in this way. You know what company doesn’t have its name attached to a big, unpopular data center project? Apple. Google isn’t winning friends and influencing people by rushing to start massive construction projects in backyards across the country. Apple gets to keep its hands clean, even if its payments to Google are presumably being funneled toward the great data center buildout.

Then there’s the Copilot of it all; the AI-buttons-everywhere factor. Siri’s attempts to summarize messages are amusing and often annoying, but at least Siri isn’t all up in every one of my work documents begging to summarize it for me. On the other hand, you can’t open a Google app without coming face-to-face with a Gemini sparkle these days, and it risks getting real old, real fast.